Author: Siobhan Curham
Format: Free ebook for Anti-bullying Week
Source: For review
I received an early copy of this ebook from the author in return for an honest review. This does not affect my review/views in any way
I normally don't ever review non-fiction, but I knew this advice ebook from Siobhan Curham was something I had to read and review for myself. It's a FREE ebook, full of case studies, stories, exercises and techniques that will help anyone that is being bullied.
The ebook is unlike most other bullying guides. It doesn't contain lots of sympathy, though it contains lots of empathy, and doesn't try to skirt round the truth of bullying. Curham is quick to define what bullying is and share her own experience of bullying, which starts it off well and isn't unsettling, like so many other bullying guides. That's the key thing about this ebook, it doesn't bother trying to make you feel sorry for yourself, it shows the cold, hard side of bullying and helps you tackle it. I certainly wish I'd had it when I was being bullied for a total of around 5 years during primary school.
One specific little exercise the ebook contains is "power tweets", which, like tweets are under 140 characters, are basically little statements that you can post around your room, house etc to uplift you when the bullying is getting you down.
“Other people have got through this – and I will too.”
The exercises that the ebook contains are things unspecific to bullying in some ways, such as listing your favourite things, but when you look deeper, you can see how they associate. One I liked was where Curham explained how you should forgive the bully, and how it's similar to "‘Not forgiving is like drinking a cup of poison and hoping the other person will die.’", or in this case, "‘Not forgiving your bully is like drinking poison and hoping the bully will die.’". Through various exercises, case studies and little power tweets, this ebook is obviously going to help many young people in the near future.
At the end of the ebook, there is a poem which was written for Curham's competition. It is uplifting, and can I just say, it is awesome! It's by my blogger friend Amber, which makes it even more awesome. So, if you're not being bullied, I'd download it to see the poem!
This ebook will be avaliable, for free, on November 1st, 2013. Beat bullies and be happy! :D
I'm not rating this because it's non-fiction and the rating wouldn't be fairly placed, but it's extremely good and I'd really recommend it for anyone who is going through bullying, either now or in the future.